In one dream I was a construction worker (male), in another I was a little girl, and in another dream I was disformed.
Dreams can create various scenario's, and it alwasy reflects who we are and who we allow ourselves to be.
So whenever you experience a dream that you switch gender, or age group, or appearance... check your own reactions.
How are you feeling about it, how do you experience yourself, what do you think, what memories come up, what judgements do you hold, are you more or less comfortable with yourself, what are you thinking about what others think etc...
All those answers you give to questions such as those, will reveal to you who you accept yourself to be - and if you allow limitation to exist within yourself.
Because if you change according to the way you look, then it means who you are is not stable and a true expression, it is dependant on the picture you portray to this world - and thus when you lose that picture, you will lose "yourself" and may go into emotional ups and downs for example.
As soon as an emotional reaction comes up, you know you have placed an idea and judgement upon the physical, no matter what form. If you feel good about it, it means you judge it as superior, if you feel bad, it means you judge it as inferior. Based on hose judgements, you feelings will change and direct you. Make you go into depression, or self-loathing, or frustration, anger, superiority etc...
Experiences that toss you around like a playball and thus do not serve you, or the greater good in any way. If you look at the outplays of that within this entire world, you see how abusive it really is.
A very interesting topic on the desteni website:
This is what is required to be understood: What is it that determines us being that of male or female defined?
- The structure of the human physical body as having a vagina and breasts or penis?
- The voice?
- The ‘description’ of one’s ‘self-definition’ as being poised, graceful, feminine/manly, controlled, dominant, masculine?
- The picture one see with your human physical eyes within the mirror?
So – are you defined as ‘who you are’ or ‘how you are’ according to having a penis or breasts and vagina, defined according to the particular structured formation-design of the human physical body within which you experience yourself?
Does your structured formation-design of the human physical body determine ‘how you experience you’, determine your self-definition, determine ‘how you are’?
I am a female because my body has breasts and a vagina and is female, therefore, I will be and behave as a female – my body-design determine how and who I am as female-defined.
I am a male because my body has a penis and thus is male, therefore, I will be and behave as a male – my body-design determine how and who I am as male-defined.
Are you defined according to your voice being that of ‘female’ or ‘male’?
I am a female because my voice is female, therefore, I will be and behave as a female – my voice determine how and who I am as female-defined.
I am a male because my voice is male, therefore, I will be and behave as a male – my voice determine how and who I am as male-defined.
Because of my body-design and my voice – I am a male and therefore I am ‘manly, strong, dominant and masculine’ and I will define and experience me as a ‘male’.
Because of my body-design and my voice – I am a female and therefore I am ‘feminine, poised, graceful and soft’ and I will define and experience me as a ‘female’.
See – have a look: Human beings become self-defined according to being male or female based on voice, looks and bodily design and the very definition of what it is to be ‘male and female’ – meaning experiencing themselves according to the description of that of male and female.
Though – aren’t guys and lesbians within this world, this reality revealing/showing something important? That being male or female is not determined by human physical body structured design – but by the mind consciousness system design within and as the human physical body – experiencing themselves as a male ‘trapped’ within a female human physical body?
What happens if the mind consciousness system design’s male-section activate and develop within a female human physical body = the being within and as the mind consciousness system experience themselves as being attracted to females – taking on the ‘male-perspective’ within and as themselves.
Therefore, it’s when human beings define themselves according to the mind in general – and according to their structured physical manifested design – that determine them being self-defined according to that of ‘male and female’.
Take away your human physical body structured design – take away the entire definition of that of male and female – take away the definition of voice being that of male or female - take away all pictures related to that of male and female: Who are you? How do you experience you?
See, the ‘point’ I am making here is that being ‘male or female’ – the very definition thereof within and as beings are according to a mind consciousness system section-activation development, the structured formation-design of a human physical body, the voice, the appearance and looks – and the very description as that of being male or female. Though = all of this is separation.
All human physical bodies are exactly the same – it’s only the structured design thereof that differs – all beings are exactly the same – it’s only the mind consciousness system design that differs.
Therefore it is to release the entire everything and all that defines self according to being male or female – literally everything, to not be that of male or female – for it is the very definition of self as being male or female that is the primary ‘connector’ to the foundation-design of the mind consciousness system – and also relationships towards others.
That which is ‘hindering’ and ‘separating’ beings from one another is also the very self-defined existence of beings, being ‘male’ or ‘female’ – where males and females exist in separation based on their self-defined existence as that of being male/female – take that away within self – the entire self-defined existence of being male/female – and a door opens within self to stand one and equal with and as self and, thus, others as self.
So – stop the conflict within you – and thus within your world – by disentangling and stopping your entire self-defined existence as being male/female and even the experiences and definitions and descriptions of the very words as that of being male/female.
To add: See - it's not about standing one and equal with the structured formation-design of the human physical body as being 'male' or 'female' – no – it's about standing one and equal with and as the human physical body itself – not the definition given to the human physical body.
And people's experiences with gender :http://desteni.co.za/forum/viewtopic.php?f=62&t=12837&hilit=gender
The desteni I process is an effective way of becoming your own direction within and without your dreams - making sure you can analyse yourself and your life to create the best life for yourself and others as possible - together with having financial stability.